Well my assesment appointement is bright and early tomorrow morning at Community health...joy. I get to talk to a shrink for 2 hours apparently to see if I even qualify for treatement, who knew there was a stipulation on just how crazy you have to be before they help you??

In other news, SO went to friend of the court last week and filled out the form to request to go in front of a mediator/referee in regards to him getting more visitation along with other things.

What we didn't know was that BM could veto the whole thing. SO gets a letter in the mail from his case worker (we're assuming it was the same one sent to BM) since it stated dear ms. BM, blahblahblah

apparently she has to respond via writing whether she agrees to mediation or not. If she doesnt then SO will just have to take her to court. Which we do not have the money for right now.

We got the letter 3 days ago so I KNOW BM got the letter...not a peep from her. SO asked her today and she said she never got it but then of course wanted to know what for so he told her.

She tells him that she has already made up her mind not to EVER give him more visitation (because apparently it is 100% her call) but she'll go but she can't promise him anything...yup.

SO forgot to tell her that she needed to write to the case worker and let him know so I guess hes just going to have to keep sending in the stupid requests and hope it works out.

Tomorrow is going to be a long ass day, yay.