Since last time I blogged it's been about skids heart and doctors visit. We have been going round and rounds with BM about this issue and with skid playing teeball. Here is the update and if you want to know more see my blogs.

BM wants us to agree to every other year child tax deduction. DH told her no unless she wants to do all her parenting duties like take skid to doc appointments and carry medical insurance. BM spoke to her attorney who claims it should be every other year. Again DH told her no and that the attorneys will have to work it out because he was not agreeing to that at all. She doesn't deserve it.
BM decides to throw a temper tantrum by now telling DH that she all of a sudden doesn't agree to anything about teeball and will no allow skid to go to the regularly asap scheduled heart doctors appointment at the end of the month. She tells DH that he is supposed to take skid and not during any of her time. It must be on DH's time which is the 2nd weekend of each month until summer. DH tries to explain that the health issue is important and she can take him up there no problem and that these are issues that effect skid not us. BM doesn't budge whatsoever and starts to belittle DH.
Today DH tries one last attempt to switch time with BM so that we can take skid to appointment and let him start teeball that same weekend. BM tells us the only way that is possible is that if the time that SHE was sick aka studying for her bar exam (which she didn't tell us)is made up. DH tells her that per the CO there are no makeups unless WE were the ones that forced her to miss the time (which we weren't). BM goes truly off her rocker. She starts telling DH that he is ignorant and can't read the CO correctly (even though she thinks weekends are given instead of split summer vacation per school) and that she won't even deal with him anymore that all correspondence now is between attorneys because we can't get this straight and lie.
I believe she tried and called the doctors office to get the appointment switched but the next available time is at the end of June. How can she play that one off when it's a heart issue and the ER doc stated ASAP for follow up.
She also wants to get a restraining order against me because when she told skid she loved him I said "if you love him, you can take him to the doctor then." She of course says I'm crazy. Also she keeps bringing up my unborn baby in matters regarding her skid.

This woman thinks she is amazingly smart and better than everyone yet she is as smart as a box of rocks. She uses her kid as a tool to get what she wants from DH and truly gets pissed and goes crazy on him when he stands up for himself and doesn't fall for her crap.
We feel that maybe something should be done in court if clearly she doesn't want to help out with skid's health issues or other things even though DH and her have joint custody (it's a weird setup between the two of them.)

So what's your take on the situation and what should our plan of attack be towards her?