Ok...so my DH is a wonderful man and I love him to death but he has no balls. I know that sounds harsh but he never says what needs to be said. Instead he'll make excuses for people that are walking all over him. Example: Friday night his ex called at 8:30 and asked him to come over and drive her to the liqour store to cash her check (first paycheck ever!) Instead of saying,"Hell no are you crazy?" He says, "Well....we're kinda having a date night." What the hell?!? Am I wrong? This ex of his left him and their daughter when she was 10. We have full custody of her. She has reduced visitation so she only is able to see her daughter 2 days a month. Most of the time she doesn't see her. This Friday, she picked her up (shocker!) and took her straight to her sisters to stay there! WTF? Then she has the nerve to call my husband and ask for a ride?!? I didn't even bother to tell my husband that his response was ridiculous...he'll just turn it around on me anyway. He'll say I'm overreacting but I don't think I am. After all the evil crap she has done to him and their daughter...not to mention me...he just gives her excuses instead of just simply saying no. Am I wrong here? This is not the first time and won't be the last. The reason why his Ex is such a pain is because for 8 years since they split he lets her do whatever she wants with no consequences. If she doesn't call or show up to get my SD10 on Friday like she promised she would...she call Saturday afternoon demanding to get SD10...SD10 doesn't even want to go...but of course my husband says "Sure." WTH? If she can't show up on the designated day then she shouldn't get too. I'm just so tired of my DH always giving in to her and never calling her out on her BS.