I leave the house for thirty minutes to see the doctor for a check up after my oral surgery last week. He gives me more prescriptions and I go the drugstore to fill them. Inside, I run into a woman that dropped DH and I like a bad habit when all the problems with BM started. She asks how DH is? Looking at me with such pity...I let loose. I should have walked away. But, I am tired of everyone thinking that we caused all this mess. My answer was he was fine now, but when SD sued us he was very upset at the time. She said she couldn't have sued you. How does that work? Well she (SD)_went to a lawyer and sued us to live with BM). "That can't be right". I assure you it is and it has cost us thousands of dollars. She says oh! "well SD seems really good now". Me - "Glad to hear it, I take it you see her, we haven't in almost two years." She was like really, all I know is she tells us that DH is very hard to get along with.

My answer was he never sees her. She says she never tells us anything except that she doesn't get along with her father. "Well he tried and BM made it difficult for him. This almost destroyed him". I assure you we did everything, but I am sure that you have heard her version since I have had other friends tell me that she has told them how horrible we are. She assures me she knows nothing from SD, but it could not be SD's fault. She is such a sweet girl" She says at least it is over now, my answer is no it is not, this is ongoing, but we do have SS full time now and he is happy...She says great and I tell her to have a nice day...BITCH!!!

For background, I know that this mom is a terrible free spirit mom that her own daughter was lying to about having boy friends for years and she told us that she trusted her daughter. SD and her are close again. I did mention that I was glad that they had worked out their differences. But, honestly do I have some type of radar on me? I really only left the house for thirty minutes and I am sure that this conversation is going to bite me in the ass. I was negative and bitter. I am sure that it will get back to DH that I ran into this woman and blamed SD. But, honestly I am really tired of this child creating drama in her life and having no punishment.

Now she is depressed. Funny that wasn't mentioned in the conversation. That girl is not depressed...She posted all this pics on Facebook last night and the day that she was supposed to be seeing her Dad to work on things. She blew him off and just like this couple blew us off. We tried several times to go out with them and SD's drama at the time with their daughter was probably the reason. We don't need these kind of friends, but it is just one more reminder of the damage that child leaves in her wake....

And another reminder of why I am moving when SS goes to college. Whether DH comes or not is completely up to him, but I am gone.