We finally sent SS to live with his mom fulltime...as I predicted she went from psycho lady to all of a sudden being TOO nice. Which gives me the creeps. Is this normal? But then again she got her own way and is in control now so I expected her to be all nicey to us..Now she is calling and emailing on a daily basis about miniscule things and it irks me...but than again she's always been a codependent person, I wish she would find her own man to talk to..Half of the things she emails and calls about have nothing to do with SS. Her attorney said they both could work some kind of visitation out verbally but I told fiancee to get something in writing to protect himself since his exwife seems very vindictive when she doesn't get her way. The inlaws threw a fit about the situation because you know, they know it all! I did have a parent aide come to see me about maybe visiting every week helping me deal with both kids but she said the things that are going on will not likely change since SS is spoiled by everyone around him and he won't change because of that. So it seems like this whole situation is doomed anyway. It doesn't matter what I do to better MYSELF as a parent to better someone else's and my own child...we will always have to deal with a spoiled kid...:( It's gonna take me awhile to decide if this is really worth it...