I got a text this afternoon from DH that he is flying up to visit SD15 on 1/12 after work and flying back on 1/13 evening all because SD15 has some final project presentation in her theater class that parents are invited to and he wants to go.

I texted back to remind him that I’m going in for a colonoscopy on 1/13. (For the past year, I’ve been suffering from severe abdominal and digestive problems and I’ve been putting of having a colonoscopy to check for microscopic colitis.) I finally scheduled it to get it over with and picked up all the supplies for the “prep” at the pharmacy today.

He texted back that he knew I had the colonoscopy and that someone else could drive me and it all worked out since he already was taking the day off work.

I’m not sure what would be worse - him not remembering or the fact that he knew about it and decided to fly out of state to visit his brat of a daughter anyways.

I’m so livid I want to scream!!! I’m going to have to reschedule since the last thing I want is to be home with only my son during the prep or to ask someone else to drive me.

SD15 is barely speaking to DH and has told him she wants him to leave her alone and him out of her life. Despite how big of a hateful, disrespectful brat she’s been to him, he keeps going out of his way to try to win her back. It’s utterly pathetic. He says he wants to go to this school thing since he’s been looking for ways to be more involved and to show he’s interested in what she’s doing. :sick:

After the way she acted (SD15‘s behavior was so bad when she was living with us that I will no longer allow her to live in my home and she’s living with an aunt & uncle in another state), the only way SD15 should see her dad is if she comes crawling back and apologizes for her actions and beg for forgiveness. But DH is acting like some pathetic teenage boy who’s desperate for a girl to like him and trying anything to impress her. It’s disgusting.

I’m absolutely dreading having to do the colonoscopy and I had to psyche myself up to finally make the appointment by convincing myself that hopefully I’ll have a diagnosis and can start feeling better this year. Last year was so bad I want to put it past me and start feeling better and taking better care of myself.

I completely believe all the stress from dealing with SD15 has caused all my abdominal problems and now more problems thanks to SD15.