I truly can't stand BM and her spawn. BM tries to lie and change stories to sound like she is superior. Then when you bombard her with true facts and put her in he place she does a 180 and is nice, sweet and charming to the point I want to puke.
If she doesn't get her way she acts like her spawn and throws fits and holds grudes.
Her spawn then is so annoying that I separate myself from him and DH each night he is with us. THe spawn purposely talks about his mom to me and what she buys him...which is a toy every weekend and then legoland this weekend.
She wants us to bend over backwards for her on everything like driving and weekends when it isn't good for her, but if it's the other way around we can kiss her butt.
She tries her hardest to scare us with saving emails yet we play by the book and only make points that she is wrong and never lie. She switches words around and writes as if someone else sees the emails. She is completely pathetic.

I feel quitly towards my DH because I love him so much and I try hard with his spawn but the spawn and his mother push me away. My DH deserves first time experiences with his spawn because he has been there since day 1 and BM has only been truly back into spawns life since may of this year. I want to be a family but its hard and even with me having my first one on the way it makes it harder. I look forward to the spawn leaving and not being around but I know it's hard on DH. Not sure how to handle it all. I'm not putting my life or my childs experiences on hold for the spawn and BM's schedule.