SS9 school called his aunt because SO's phone is off. She tells me.in a message that the school. Social worker wants to talk to my SO about SS9. I don't know what going on because SO doesn't.speak to me.when I come home to pick up the baby. We are not together anymore because he told.me.to leave. Now I feel obligated to talk to him about SS9 because if something is wrong or whatever I don't want him around my baby. I trust the baby with my SO but I don't trust his kids as far as I can see them. SO works at home too so he gets.distracted and.might.not have the baby by his side at all times. I know SS9 has problems ---he is a therapist's dream/fantasy. His BM left him when he was a baby has been in and out his life. My SO's exgf basically raised him from 1-5. Then I come in the picture and try my hardest with that child but even I couldn't deal with all his school.problems and attention problems..... I don't to have to have anything to do with this BS because I'm not loving there anymore and.I'm not with my.SO. this is his problem,not.mine. he wanted to be a single.father because BM is a deadbeat but then he shifts everything to his current gf
now we are not together and his son's BS at school.are being thrown in his face now!!! I want nothing of this but at to some extent I'm a part of it because my little baby is with SO all day while.I'm at work...... ugh......this mess is nothing but a clusterfuque