EWWWWWWW
I now have definitive proof my SD11 is the second(only to her mother) grossest,most nauseating, disgusting person on the planet,she still wets the bed as we know from my other blogs. So, last night she wets the bed and she is on her period, well of course there was bloody piss everywhere and she shoved all the linens in the washer colors and whites (with blood all over them) together and did not use bleach, so now pads are stained and I rewashed them myself w/bleach twice. Then on top of all that she did not take a shower before she left for school. :sick: I am so sickened by this.
When she came home from school I told her"don't you dare touch a thing in this house that does not belong to you and you alone, and don't you dare touch anything in the refrigerator or cabinets and you know why, if your hungry or thirsty go ask your Grandmother to get it for you." She looked at me and walked away, I still don't know if she got a snack or not. I also called her Father and told him about all of this and he said let me handle it when I get home.
This was after yesterday I walk into her room to open windows and found a used Kotex in her dollhouse.
WHY DOESN'T SHE GET IT? :jawdrop:
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Wow...... All I have to say
Wow...... All I have to say is wow..... Have u explained to her how to handle these things since obviously her mother doesn't know how to teach her daughter proper female hygiene?
I know this is right around
I know this is right around the corner for me! SD10 still wets herself/the bed. Once her period comes its going to be hell!!! She doesn't wash up after either. AND she leaves her piss there to sleep in the next night. Shes so nasty!
She has been told by us
She has been told by us (father, grandmother and me) and by her physician how to handle these things, she is just as nasty as her mother.
Some people just lack the
Some people just lack the hygiene gene. SD9s BM is very unkempt. Rarely showers, dirty hands/nails, dirty house, dirty smelly clothes, you get the drift. SD9 would wear the same clothes infinately and nand never shower or clean her room if it were up to her. So gross.
How do you deal with that?
How do you deal with that? That kind of crap invades my personal space, germs and smalls, etc.
Well, I don't have to deal
Well, I don't have to deal with the BM, really. She gets SD9 for a few weekends a month. We have custody, and here we have a standard of cleanliness that EVERYBODY abides by regardless of how it is done elsewhere or "what my mom says". Every child in the house will bathe every day. Period. You bathe. You wash your hair. You wash your hands when you leave the bathroom. YOu keep your hair tidy and your face clean. Is that too much to ask? I don't think so.
Kids never get in trouble here for having a potty accident. Hey, it happens, I get that. What we get in trouble for is failing to IMMEDIETELY take responsibility for said accident. Pee your pants? No problem. Jump through the shower. Strip your bed, and I'll wash your sheets. No one need be the wiser. Pee your pants and hide it, or go to school filthy? Get the fuck out of here and go to boarding school where there are nuns that wash kids with brillo pads, because dirty asses don't get to live here. They just don't. We have way too many people in this house to have a dirty ass mucking it up for those of us with hygiene.
I don't care if someone isn't necessarily predisposed to keep clean. I do care if they refuse to keep clean when reminded, and I have to keep doling out consequences. Eventually you just get voted off the island. Thankfully, threats of military school have been sufficient so far, coupled with a few well placed brochures from all girl boarding schools.
Same with my SD7!!! She wets
Same with my SD7!!! She wets the bed every single night so I have to resort to putting her in a diaper at night so she doesnt ruin everything! Is she embarrassed that she has to wear a diaper?? Heck no! She even tells me its time to change her diaper at bedtime! YES...she is 7!!! I have to force her to take a bath/shower in the morning and use soap on top of it.
Katie
How are you? Yea, SD acts
How are you? Yea, SD acts like her feelings are all hurt when we call her out on this stuff, but I don't see her doing a thing to change it. Also you seem to still have some control, I don't and never have.
Its nothing physical
Its nothing physical according to the pedi. She knows she has to go but chooses not to get up. She isnt motivated at all to want to stop and isnt embarrassed in the least. BM doesnt see a problem with it and lets her get away with it because "she is only 7!" She knows exactly what she is doing.
Katie
OMG, yes, this! My SD9 will
OMG, yes, this! My SD9 will literally crap her pants because she is outside and too lazy to come inside. And then, the kicker is, instead of cleaning herself up or coming inside, my DD8 will come to me and say "Mom, SD smells like poop. I think she did it again!" and I will ask SD, and she will LIE about it while she's standing there with a panty load of doo doo. Can you believe that? Now, for that kind of disgusting display, you better believe her dad spanks her butt. She absolutely can help it, because she has NEVER soiled herself at school EVER. And she is in regular classes.
Let me be clear. She is NOT being spanked for having an accident. She is being spanked for recalcitrantly filling her pants and then remaining in it until someone sniffs her out and tells on her. It's beyond disgusting that my kids have to be exposed to this extreme disregard for cleanliness.
I have pretty much disengaged
I have pretty much disengaged otherwise but I will NOT allow her to ruin my furniture or stink up my house. If she wants to wet the bed then she will wear a diaper until SHE decides to stop. I am DONE cleaning up after her messes. It is sad though to have the only 7 year old that wears a diaper but its her decision not mine.
Katie
OMG your post made me
OMG your post made me flashback to one of life's most embarrassing moments. I had a realtor tour our house (mine & my ex-DH's) to tell me how much we could get for rent. I haD had enough of DH & SD's bs and was exploring the options to leave. When we went into SD16's room there were several bloody tampons on the bathroom floor & it smelled like a dead cat! I was moritified and said to the realtor, "THIS is why I'm looking at my options to get the hell out of here.". I SOOO feel your pain!!
OMG, is right!!! I would have
OMG, is right!!! I would have died!
I feel your pain! My Ss 6
I feel your pain! My Ss 6 pooped in his underwear not 1x but 2x because he didnt want to stop battleing on his nintendo DS. I didnt know until i caught a whif of him and gagged! His mother did nothing. Had he been mine, that damn thing would be in a million pieces so that when he needed to go to the restroom in the future, he wouldnt be too busy to get up and go.
Time for some public
Time for some public humiliation and ridicule. Next time she wets the bed put her in a big old honkingly large diaper that will be obviouse regardless of what she is wearing and send her to school in that.
My SS had this problem when he was in the 6-8yo range. We started by being concerned, etc... and when we figured out he did it because he was too F-in lazy to get his ass out of bed to use the bathroom we took away any liquids after 5pm... when that did not work .... diaper. We sent him to school in a diaper on a Friday and then he spent all weekend in the diaper. He came to the breakfast table on Mon with no diaper, told his mom and I that he would not ever wet his bed again and he did not..... he did freak out years later while going through puberty thinking he was wetting the bed but when he asked me about it I took him for a "guy lunch" and explained what was going on and that it was nothing to worry about but to make sure he was showering in the AM before he went to school and for sure not wearing his underwear more than for one day.
"Daaaaaad, that is gross. I could never wear my underwear for two days!!!!" Oh how things change as they get older.
As for the tampon disposal problems, etc..... I have no suggestions on that one other than take the kotex and give her towel sized pads to deal with until she figures out how to use femanin hygene products effectively.
Since I am a guy with no daughters I have no other suggestions.
I have no problem trying that
I have no problem trying that when she is homw but, I dont know if I can have her wear one to school. Do I notify the school beforehand? I just dont want the school to assume something is going on you know? Did the school ever say anything to you about it or did they not know? What about the other kids/friends there....did they find out or say anything to him about it? For the life of me, I cant see how in the world she isnt phased or embarrassed by it. Probably because its just at home and we are the only ones that know?
Katie
During the day and when she
During the day and when she is at school she handles going to restroom just fine,but it is the period that concerns me more. How do you not see that as nasty, would you want human blood all over your things? If she was a bed wetter till the day she dies that would not concern me. It is the lack of respect for herself and others that really chaps my ass!!!
Same here with my SD7! She
Same here with my SD7! She has no problem going at school but anywhere else...I cant count on her making it to the bathroom on time, especially at night. I cant make overnight plans with her for fear she will ruin someone elses furniture and I have to remind myself to bring along extra clothes in the car if we go anywhere longer then 2 hours. I have to put a plastic cover over the seats in the car because after spending money to get the seats cleaned, I am NOT spending that much money on it again. I have turned down numerous invitations from family and friends that required overnight stays because of her and I hate it!
Katie