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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 8:47am

FINALLY!!!! I finally have good news... I finally have an attorney that will wipe the floor with this BITCH. I have Finally found an attorney that is fighting for my BDH... and now this bitch is going to pay the consequences for her actions when it comes to refusing to get a job. For refusing to allow visitations... for everything. FINALLY....

I can not wait to see the look on her face when she finally realizes that I am not the enemy... But I am going into MOMMA BEAR mode...

Please Keep thinking that I am so selfish... PLEASE... You have no clue what I sacrifice to have those children in my life. Youhave absolutely no Idea what I would do for those kids. YOU think you know me? You don't know me from ADAM.... Please... Let me show you what I AM ABOUT!

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 9:02am

EVERY little victory is a victory in my favor... I know it is not that easy, but... at least I am putting the effort in, right?

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Submitted by Jsmom on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 9:16am

Ours exactly, when she messed up and gave BM vistitation until he turns 14 even though we never agreed to it...Yet, she had no problem sending the bill after for another 3K. I hate these attorneys, they drag it out and still get paid. If I was slow doing my job, I would be fired...Not them, they have us tied up, because if we go to a new attorney, we start over and start paying the retainer again...They all suck.

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 9:14am

I know HRNYC... Been there already... Thank you for the fair warning... But thankfully this time, I am not being so nicey nice with this one... This time I am giving the instructions, not the other way around. and they have already been told, if you can not follow my instructions, then You will be in court right along with BM... LOL

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Submitted by Jsmom on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 9:14am

I did for years and it bite me in the ass everytime...I am just saying don't set yourself up because a lot of the time these BM's do not get what is coming to them. Ours is slowly, but not after we have spent over 19K now on lawyers and the emotional cost is more. For me to protect my sanity, I had to vent here and let DH handle it with the lawyers and BM. I could give my input if it affected me, but mostly this is about them. Unfortunately for my SS it is no longer about the kids it is about how much BM hates my DH.

I would step back and let DH handle everything now to protect your own sanity and your marriage.

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Sun, 10/30/2011 - 9:28am

I can not step back. DH's occupation does not allow him to be home every day to handle the attorneys etc. He expects me to keep him sane... I am a lot more level headed and able to speak clearly to the legal end of things.

I am taking all necessary precautions on every end of it all. I have done all the research, I have found all the informations I can to procede with caution and without using slander, deffimation, or with out involving the children. This it total legally done.

Thankyou all for all your advice and true concern.

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 8:54am

Well, Things have taken an alternate route... In our favor though... Come to find out a lot more "dirt" on this idiotic worthless BM...

TAX Fraud in excess of $10,000 both her and her new hubby.... Being nailed on that one... (in the process, I got the inquiry letter...)

Being put in Government hands (is about all I can say on this one at this point... I know it is confusing... but when the dust settles, I will gladly expose the entire story)....

Both SD and BM looking at prison time....

OH WHAT SWEET LITTLE VICTORIES WE GET...

Karma is a total Bitch...