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MOTY???? Something she would so enjoy....

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Wed, 10/19/2011 - 8:41am

MOTY Is definitely something she would enjoy because it is all about who lies best to the children. It really does not matter if they really know the truth, they believe her lies. You can show them everything you have to back you up 100% and they still believe in the lies they are being told... How the hell is that anyway to raise a child? Then you wonder why they freak out when they get caught lieing... apparently the apple does not fall far from the tree... You want to raise liars... that is on you. I was raised better and I'll be Damned if those children will lie any where around me, in my house, around our families... Screw that... There is a huge difference between right and wrong... Apparently you were never taught the difference either.... :sick:

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 10/19/2011 - 9:24am

Hehe must be a BM thing. Ours does it too. When SS6 got in trouble for lying at school, BF confronted BM about it, who in turn lied about it so BF told her. "SO you are the one teacher our son to lie."

What SS6 did at the school was it was spring picture day and he told his teacher that he wasn't supposed to get his picture taken because he had done so in the fall, but BM had already turned in the order form and paid for it. She got her money back but We would have rather gotten the pictures.

Even this morning SS6 tried to tell me that it was raining out side so he could take the umbrella to school. I looked out the window and told him it wasn't. He insisted that it was so I told him to stop lying and informed him that I didn't like liars. Harsh maybe, but I don't like liars and that is the truth.

Best of luck to you the only thing you can do is call them out on it, you aren't as stupid as they apparently think you are.

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 10/19/2011 - 11:21am

The BM in our case is a pathological liar. She brought up the SD's on lies, they all have no problem lying straight to BF's face. Right now BF is having issues with SD21 because of her lies. Bm says "she may have elaborated or stretched the truth a little, but no reason for BF to be upset with her". I mean seriously in BM's world lying is perfectly acceptable. In our home it is not he has had to do lots of work with SD12 to let her know that lying will not be tolerated. It is sad when there mother encourages them to do it though. It is like fighting a losing battle but we still fight the fight!