DH has been working SD pretty hard lately. He is upset that she has gained SO MUCH weight. She is tall for her age, just about my height, which isn't saying much since I'm 5', but is heavier than me. DH hates that she wears XXL and that she is ALWAYS asking for desserts. No matter where we go, she is asking for candy, ice cream, cookies, etc. So anyway, he has been taking her out on runs, playing basketball, and tennis.

In a previous post I states that we all went out as a family to play tennis; at which time SD tells me that she only wants to play with her dad and if I don't mind stepping aside. I was still trying to have a relationship with her and THIS DID NOT HELP.

This morning DH is taking her out to play tennis and asks if I would go with them. I say.. HELL NO!! I am not putting myself in that sitch again. He was hurt and upset. He basically told me to get over it and that I should just give it a go again. Well, again I said.. HELL NO!! No big fight or argument, just a pout.

In the end, I am sitting here with DS, because they wouldn't take him if I didn't go, writing because if I don't I will go off on DH. OHH, yeah I think the only reason I received an invite is because they wanted someone to watch DS, since I said no they (DH) made an excuse as to why he couldn't take him.