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Submitted by smcpaw on Tue, 06/27/2006 - 5:37am

My daughter and I had a long talk and unfortunately she is not as forgiving of my boyfriend as I, and rightfully so. She really didn't do anything wrong and is being punished more than his daughter, who caused this problem. I am hoping my daughter in time will learn to forgive my boyfriend, but blame really should be placed on the person who caused all this, his daughter. He has a hard time accepting that his daughter is at fault - she has been manipulating both her parents for 15 years and nothing is ever her fault!

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Submitted by Sherrylyn on Thu, 06/29/2006 - 10:01pm

I can think back, & I remember having one horribly awful arguement with my husband. I thought that this is it, how can we even recover from this. I remember thinking I would never forgive him for some of the things said.

I can honestly say this: I don't remember what it was about; I hold no hostility towards him about getting to that point, I know too well his hot buttons. That being said he was smart enough to know that I usually am driven by what I think is good for everyone involved, even if it's not popular.

Your boyfriend, being the adult, should sincerely own up to your daughter for his actions & decisions & apologise. Once that is done, she will like me let it go.