I've had it! This girl is nuts, and all this time I have been nice and sympathetic and even her friend a few times when she needed me. But yesterday she lied to the police and tried to get my man put in jail, now I'm done feeling sorry for the B****, now I just think she is a sorry B****!!!!!

She was mad because DH and I didn't hand SD over to her G-ma when we hadn't heard from BM and couldn't reach her on the phone, so she stuck SD in daycare. She called DH Tues night and said SD would be going to "school" the next day. She told DH he was welcome to come check it out whenever he wanted. DH said, "Okay, what time are you dropping her off tomorrow and we'll meet you there". BM tried to back track a little, but couldn't.

After they got off the phone Dh and I were talking and decided to tell BM that she would be in contempt of court if she did take SD to daycare because the current temporary orders state that "the child's maternal great grandmother is to care for the child at mother's residence." BM in all her bratty ignorence told DH, "No I'm not, I talked to my lawyer!"

She went on to say that her attorney told her it was okay to put SD in daycare and that he told her to do that when we were in court at the hearing to set the temp orders. Huh???
The temp orders were signed by both DH and BM, now she's trying to say that her attorney is advising her not to follow court orders?

We showed up at the daycare and all went as expected with SD being in public childcare for the first time in her life and being only 3, she cried.

It was when we got in the parking lot that DH was trying to talk to BM about the temp orders and asking her if she has read her emails so we can get this agreement thing done and BM was not having it. She said no, because she has "other things to do". DH had the folder in his hands and pulled out our latest printout of her public myspace page with her half-naked pic on the front. She hardly got a glance and had already grabbed DH's wrist and was trying to take the paper from his hand, already saying, "I'm calling the police!" She pulled Dh off balance when she was pulling on his wrist and he didn't let go of the paper right away so he almost fell on her. Bm yelled, "assault, assault!" I yelled for him to just let it go and they separated. She called to a mother that had just dropped her child off and said, "Call the police he just assaulted me!" The lady just got in her car and left. BM immediately got on the phone and called 911, telling them she had just been assaulted and she has scratches all over her arms. Then she got in her car so I couldn't hear anymore. :O

DH and I hung out and waited, and the police officers went back and forth. We overheard the officers ask BM where the paper was that they were fighting over and she tried to act like there wasn't one. Guess she didn't want the police officers to see her nudie pic she posted on the internet!!! No such luck for BM, the police not only looked at it, they also returned it to DH and I, saying it belongs to us and we might want to keep it for court. Of course, BM had her mom show up, you know, the one that beat her up and was the reason we filed for custody to begin with. SHe commented as she walked by us in the parking lot, "So you couldn't just let her have a good first day?" As if we are the cause of all problems, I wish sometimes I was quick with words to shoot back, "So you couln't just not beat the crap out of your adult daughter and then call us over to your house!" But I'm not like that and that is the reason my wonderful husband kissed and hugged me last night telling me he thinks I am the only reason BM wasn't able to suck the officers in to her lies and get him arrested.

They told us they had determined it was a Domestic Disturbance and there would be no assault charges. They said there were "inconsistancies in her story" and that she seemed "immature". One of them even said that he thought the picture was innappropiate for a mother to put on the internet. They were very nice, and encouraged us to keep all of our info and surprise her in court instead of letting her see it. We told them that they are right, we just thought it would be better for our relationship with her in the future if we were able to settle without having to embarass her in court with the pics.

As soon as we got to our house we logged on and she had changed her myspace pic to one of SD as an infant. Our attorney told us before that even worse than a pic of herself, would be her putting SD on the internet. Well, there we go! Later she changed it to her face and her mood said "pissed off". Surely she's not mad at us??

To top it all off I heard from a family friend that she was indeed arrested last wknd and that was the reason we could not get ahold of her and her G-ma was trying to pick up SD.

We picked SD up at BM's today for the wknd and BM had the nerve to ask if we would be dropping SD off on monday morn. at 10. The orders are that DH and BM each have to pick SD up at the begining of their possession, but for a while DH would keep Sd later on mon mornings and drop her off so BM G-ma wouldn't have to drive over.
DH said, "No, you're going to pick her up monday at 10." BM shot back, "No I'm not!" DH and I just looked at eachother. She is so dumb. Then she very sarcascially said, "well, I'm letting you know now that my G-ma will be picking her up." We just said thank you.

SD is home with us now and is asking us not to make her go back over there. I tucked her into bed and all is right in the world, at least until monday, when the G-ma is going to come to my house and rip my heart out and hand it over to BM for four more days.