Usually its my SD that is pissing me off to no end but the past couple of weeks she hasnt been too bad. My DS however has been a non stop brat since a visitation change last year with his father, and its gotten much worse. Prior to the change he saw BD once a month for a few hours then the gal thought it would be good for the both of them to give BD 50/50 week on/ week off. Well... not so much. My son goes over there and lays about playing Halo all day, doest do school work and snacks on crap. Ive tried to reason with both BD and DS but nothings changed. DS cries when hes here over everything. He doesnt want to be here cause I dont let him get away with all his bs tantrums. My poor DH cant handle it any more. I think that if anything were to happen to my marriage it would be his fault. Im seroiusly considering saying F it and letting DS go live with his precious father.