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iam living with someone husband but i hate his kids and his crack head ex-wife to?

pepper4's picture

Submitted by pepper4 on Fri, 04/22/2011 - 6:15pm

The sad part is that they always trying to find a reason to call him or me like it is ok and its not he say he sick of them but he get mad when i keep it real with him about his sorry ass kids.So i try not to here him when he start vent about his kids,because he all ready knows that the apple don't fall far from the tree. The oldest 2 are having baby like crazy and now he want 2 tell me all about it i really don't care.So do u think iam been a little hard on him?

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Submitted by oneoffour on Fri, 04/22/2011 - 7:02pm

Well, they are part of his life. So either accept them as being involved in his life or move on to someone who doesn't have kids.

Would you like this guy to tell you what you can and can't say to him? We had another poster here in the last few days who is being controlled by her BF. And yet here you are trying to do the same thing.

Honey, the kids aren't going anywhere. Either work out a way to tolerate them in small doses or move out.

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Fri, 04/22/2011 - 8:32pm

I understand completely. I've had to block out all that my SO says about skids. I don't want to hear it. You want to say.. If you are going to complain about not liking what is going on with your children, then do something about it.
I can't fix it.

Its unnecessary drama.

All I can say is listen. Say that is really difficult for you and just change the subject or leave the room. Try to still be understanding though. Just avoid the drama nicely.