Been a while..trying to cope with the whole STEP issue...

SD20 is slowly entering DH's life again. We've had her blocked from our phones since mid-January since we caught her stealing here and she blasted me, telling me she hated me and I was her father's worst mistake.

Since then, DH began a new job that enables him to have a company cell phone. Alas - he has been calling her from that cell phone. Just like I knew he would. Not alot - but yes, he's been calling his princess.

He knows she is the thief in our home. He knows she disrespected me horribly..in her manic texts to me she tried to turn me against my own husband saying he told her he was miserable with me and was only with me due to not wanting to be alone. Said he didn't like my daughter and she and I both made him miserable. I totally ruined a good man...etc...I could go on and on...point is, she said things that I feel are not easy to forget - nor do I want to. She's a total manipulative bitch and never will I forget her words. Nor will I forget her mother's email blasting me, telling me how much my husband's entire family hated me because I've made my DH's life a living hell.

DH keeps hinting around about how he wants to do things with the 'grandkids' which I'm sure will include the bitch's son. I already have plans on telling him I won't be included in any celebration that involves her or her mother attending..and I mean it. I will not be graced by their psychotic presence for anything and that even means a child.

If that's heartless, then so be it. I really don't care anymore.

I can't stop my own husband from calling his daughter, but I don't have to like it. I feel he is missing the point here..and I've told him so. He's acting like a sick dog that lost it's baby. He's not wanting a 'rift' in the family..so he's ran after his spoiled brat woman-child to try to make some sort of amends.

Yet..on her part? No return of our stolen items..no apology of any kind. No begging of forgiveness.

All that's been done? He's got a phone to call her from now and he - of course - chased her down to make some sort of progress in their relationship. God forbid princess can't have her Daddy in her life.

I have no intention of ever crossing her path again..and I can honestly say I mean that. I have gotten to the point I cold care less what he thinks about it too.

I've been married a year and already I've disowned his daughter. Amazing eh?

And all due to her behavior...but yet I have my husband going behind my back like a huge pussy, chasing her down.

Pretty sad.