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Barbie2390's picture

Submitted by Barbie2390 on Thu, 03/17/2011 - 5:30pm

:jawdrop: Ok so i dont know what to do DH is going to pick up SD tomorrow and everytime those days come around i start getting depressed and moody just uncomfartable with the idea that shes going to be here and Sunday we were talking about that and he got mad because he told me why dont u love her like u do our son and i simply answered Because shes not mine and even putting up with her is had so he grabbed me by both my arms and slammed me against the door and now on both arms i have his fingers imprinted as bruises and im not easy to bruise i was surprised to this day i cant move my left arm fast it hurts. What should i do? What does this girl have over him (FYI SHE IS NOT BIOLOGICALLY HIS)im just so tired

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alwaysanxious's picture

Submitted by alwaysanxious on Thu, 03/17/2011 - 5:33pm

ANY physical confrontation should be met with SWIFT and EXTREME consequences.
I am so sorry. LEAVE. You have the most simple and easy reason to not be there. He can never do that. Your honesty should never have elicited that kind of reaction. It will escalate and he will create more demanding expectations of you.

Doing nothing will make him feel like he can do it again.

12yrstepmonster's picture

Submitted by 12yrstepmonster on Thu, 03/17/2011 - 8:41pm

HE views SD as his regardless of his blood ties. That is admirable in my eyes and very hard to do.

As for the physical part- it should not be tolerated at all in any level.

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Submitted by skylarksms on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 8:31am

At the very least, you need to file a report and let the police take pictures of the bruises.

WHEN (not if, but when) he gets physical with you enough times for you to decide to leave, this prior report will make things easier for you.