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BM gets contempt chargers again.....

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Submitted by AlaynasBFF on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 1:02am

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I'm just wondering how many contempt charges the bm gets before something serious should happen to her? She kept the kids away for 3 months and got hit with contempt charges and lost almost all her summer time visitations, she wouldn't move out of the house and have minivan transfer title into her name of what the court order stated so she got another contempt charge had to pay $5,000. Then bm didn't show up for drop off again for.x-mas break last year when she was supposed to so she was in contempt again. Now this year for christmas break she is not allowed at all to have the kids. I was just wondering how many more slaps will she get before something more serious should happen to her? She continually sends harassing e-mails to us she won't answer the phone when dh calls for his court order phone time. She will sometimes have the kids call dh back or she will e-mail lame excuse the phone was broke, or on silent etc.....please advise thank u

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Submitted by windee on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 7:34am

Sounds like she will not learn, only gets worse. Like a teenager who thinks they are invincible.

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Submitted by Ex4life on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 8:16am

Who is primary custodian? It sounds like the ex is, so with that....I would suggest that with the next contempt charge you go after her with you ask for primary custody to be changed to BF. It won't stop her from trying to mess with you, but at least they will be with a parent that will facilitate a relationship with both parents.

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Submitted by AlaynasBFF on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 9:39am

BM has primary custody DH has joint legal custody. It seems like BM likes to push everything to the edge. She doesn't care about the minor contempt charges against her BM feels like she is controlling the situation initially so not seeing the kids every so often because she wanted to go against the court order is no big deal to her. We would like to have custody but so far the kids are doing excellent in school, they love their mom even though I think they're scared of her because she controls them to, and they're very level headed sweet children when they are with us! DH Lawyer says we have no grounds for fighting for custody. I prayed the next contempt charges show the judge how irresponsible she is. And recommends that the kids come live with us. Does anyone know can she be in contempt for sending DH Harassing and slandering emails?