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Prom Update

smcpaw's picture

My daughter was so beautiful. She had a wonderful time at her junior prom. We had a before prom gathering for pictures with her date and his parents and my mother, my son and his girlfriend. I was a very proud mother and my daughter beamed with beauty. She was extremely appreciative (we had a whole day of hair appointments, nails and makeup).

On a not so happy note, my boyfriend's daughter also went to the prom and had demanded that her father go to the biomom's house at 6:00 p.m. for pictures. My boyfriend told her earlier in the week that she could stop by the house before going to the prom. She didn't show up so her dad didn't see her. I think he was trying to take a stand and teach her that she can't demand things from people. He said the following day that it was partially his fault for never making her mind when she was younger. I told him that she was now old enough to understand between right and wrong. My daughter told my boyfriend that his daughter was "mad at him". My boyfriend explained to my daughter that she had no right to be mad at him and that he and I are one now and he isn't going to have his daughter try to exclude me because we are together now and she needs to learn to respect both of us. I just hope he sticks to his guns and not give in and take the blame this time.

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lovin-life's picture

Good for him. I know it's not easy for the men to be constantly put in these positons.... he did the right thing! I'm glad it was a happy day for you.

smcpaw's picture

Thanks for your support and opinion. Sure is tough this blended family stuff.

Sherrylyn's picture

I'm so glad that you made your daughters prom so special. She will have wonderful memories of her prom because of the love you showed her on this day.

smcpaw's picture

Children grow up so fast and we have to cherish the special moments with them so that we'll have fond memories in the future. Thanks for your support.

happy mom's picture

Good for you and your daughter... You can't make everyone happy, she needs to learn to respect you and your family and stop this childish game of being angry and nasty. Stand your ground and hopefully she'll get the picture.

smcpaw's picture

I agree - but it's so hard on my boyfriend because he loves his daughter and doesn't want to be the bad guy, but he has been manipulated by the biomom and his daughter for so long he doesn't know how to deal with her now. She should grow up and accept things that aren't going to change. I have been nothing but good to her and she just doesn't want to come around at all. Hopefully, someday she will see the light and treat her dad and me with the respect we deserve.