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panchos_baby_gurl's picture

Sad Me and my hubby got into a fight today. I bent over to give him a kiss and he said HEY! WHAT ARE YOU DOING THAT FOR?! This is not the first time he's done this and I got furious. I yelled at him and said yeah, but you don't have a problem with your ex kissing you!! We called each other names and at the end of the fight he said he's how it is, I'm here with you in America, and I said AND WHAT ABOUT MEXICO? he said that I am to never mention his children or his ex because its none of my business that its private. I asked him if your supposedly not with her, then why is it so private?! He didn't wanna answer. I think he got back with her even though we're together and she's in mexico. I'm supposed to be visiting my family for Christmas and I just wanna go back home right now and not come back to him. He doesn't want me to know anything about his kids, we used to fight because he talked to them and his ex away from me and I would get mad and accuse him of cheating on me. I dunno what to say or think but his cousins and sister and mom like me and want to meet me when we visit but he said today that I'm not going with him because of what I said and honestly we're referring to his 1st cousin as his ex, WTF was he thinking of getting with her and wanting to be with her. I want everyones opinion so plz help a poor heartbroken girl out plz Cray 2

Anon2009's picture

You're not an idiot. I've been down that road too. (((HUGS)))

Am I correct in saying that his ex is his cousin? That has to be very awkward.

You need to be able to mention your stepchildren and ex to your husband. They affect you too. As far as the kids go, I recommend that you mention them in a polite, non-bashing way.

Honestly, I think he might have gotten back with her too. I think you should go see your family, and take some time to think things over.

caregiver1127's picture

Run - run very fast and very far - he sounds like an asshole and yes it sounds like he is still with his ex (cousin :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: ). Find someone who will love you for you in any country not just America - if my husband ever said that to me I would kick him the hell back to Mexico - go home to your family and get out of this marriage!!

alwaysme's picture

Oh my you just need to leave, why are you wasting time on this man? If he tells you a big part of his life is private then you dont stand a chance in being a part of it. Do yourself a favour and find someone better