Great, BF's restraining order has expired...
BM sent BF an email (marked "Confidential") to let him know that the RO has expired. So guess what she does? She says "SS tells me that you seem sad and lonely and he thinks you want to come back home and be a family. If you want to that's fine but it can't be temporary - it has to be permanent. SS doesn't deserve to have his feelings played with like that."
WTF?!?!
This along with all the other things she "claims" SS has told her have really gotten me wound up. Where does she come up with this crap? And what does she think she's going to accomplish by lying to us all the time? Doesn't she know that we (not to mention her own son) never believe a word she says?
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Don't let her!
Don't let her get to you, she is just trying to stir things up and get into you head. She is not worth it! She just needs to grow up and quit playing high school games. So sad!
She will stop at nothing
My dear, she is a fipping nut job. You have got to let go sometimes and just laugh.
I feel so bad for your SS. She should not have him.
Hugs too. Jo
Which is all I can do right now...
De inimico non loquaris sed cogities.
Laugh that is...it is sooooo high school!!!
I agree with Trugg..
NYMH- she knows now that the restraining order is up so its ok now in her eyes to send him emails and bug him. He can get another one if he would like. Pretty sad that she just won't let go if you ask me, but you may wait till eternity for that. She is very selfish and very immature.. Is she a pretty woman? (I am only asking because if she is ugly it may be why she is still alone and clinging).
Let her send her shit, cuz its all lies and you know what she knows you are reading the emails and knows it getting to you. Let it go. Reply to her message if you must. Be nice and just act like you are BF and tell her that you are very sorry she is so confused but what you want her to understand is that you are happy now where you are. And her living in this fantasy land she is thinking that I will ever come back is not healthy for you(Her) or anyone involved. Tell her you would truly like her to move on with her life.. Please and thank you.
That is what I would do..
Happy
" make sure you tell the people you love most EVERYDAY.. Its important not only for them to know but for you to tell.. Life is to short to be miserable..
RE:
Thanks Happy. I really appreciate it. I think I'm gonna let BF handle this one but I definitely hope he does handle it. He thought he made it plenty clear enough yesterday when he tried to set her straight on the whole "SS thinks you want to come home, if you do that's ok, blah blah" stuff. He came out and told her that under no circumstances would he ever even try to give him that impression and he does NOT want to come home, there's a reason they're divorced and he's happy with his life the way it is. He even came out and said that the root of her problems with visitation is that she doesn't like that I'm a part of his life and that I overlap with his visitation with SS. He said that she has no right to try to dictate where and when SS can do things because I will or will not be there. He told her I'm here to stay and that's that. But instead of understanding that he has no intention of ever getting back with her like he attempted to point out, she sends him this email trying to be all lovey dovey and inviting him to discuss his problems with her, come back home, etc. Ugh!
And no, she is NOT a pretty woman. I'm not trying to be mean but she's scarred herself for life with her bitterness and anger. Her face is in a permanent scoul. She has allowed herself to become fat and medically compromised her own health because all she does is sit around the house and stress about me and BF.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
OMG
She is delusional!!! What a wack job.
Dawn