So, I just recently vented about SD10 yesterday and got great feedback. Just also wanted to inform you that DH can be helpful but only when he wants. So, yesterday we were sitting down doing homework together. All of us. DH, SD10 and BS6, after we went to two constructive parent teacher meetings. Then DH said he would think about switching his off day to help out with homework and daily things to take some of the load off of me. This would be great. If he did these things all of the time...I might no be so stressed or even feel like it is just me all the time.