Things have been going along without too much drama lately since I've disengaged from the two biggest losers I've ever met. But I have to tell you all that these crazy ADULT Skids (I use the term adult loosely) are still kind of driving me nuts. Last night, I laid down the law that my SS34 and BD29 have to clean the house top to bottom because I can't stand it anymore. BTW, my BD29 moved in this summer because she's in college and lost her job. She'll be gone in a couple of weeks back to school. SS34 has been here since April. Come hell or high water, he'll be gone Oct. 1. But back to the subject. He has cleaned his bathroom ONCE in 4 months. I guess there isn't a limit to the conditions he's happy to live under as long as it's free.
Anyway, I made a list, checked it twice, and they proceeded to do the work. But he acted like a surly teenager the whole time and had to leave to go "cash his check" which I assume means get high right in the middle of it. Anyway, the house got cleaned up (after a fashion) so I'm satisfied for now. When I asked where he was tonight, DH said he's watching his sister's kids because she had a weird work schedule. I just smiled and let him know that she went out of town to try to meet up with her latest because he's supposed to get out of prison tomorrow.
My DH is the kindest, most generous person I know. But what an enabler! It's like his off spring were raised by wolves. Or gypsys.