I wonder how long it will take her to wake up.  Is DH still paying or is it student loans?

Full disclosure, I had them as well though far from an entrenched case. I started an honors pre-med program my first University after HS.

I was a HS honors grad and entered Uni on an honors program. That lasted a single semester.  Highly structured Military School for HS and JC followed by the free for all of University.... I failed miserably.

11 years/ 7 colleges or universities/ 7majors later... I finished my BSEE (electrical engineering).  I started a company when i was 21 and sold to my business partners when I was 26.  My issue was not so much pursuit of grandeur, my issue was I loved school and every elective would likely get my attention and I would change my major.

After my second year my parents threw up their hands and told me to pay for it myself. I paid for the middle 7yrs of my 11yr plan. Mom and dad helped with the last 2 of my 11yr undergrad career.

Grad school also was a drawn out event, though not due to inattention, or chasing a new major.  My employer paid for it though on a reimbursement basis of $5K per year.  So, I spent $5K per year stretching a 22mo MBA program out to 48mos across all or part of 5 calendar years.  That one I finished with high honors.

I learned, eventually, that for me anyway, University was not about finding what I loved to do. it was about getting an education with a marketable skill so I could do what I wanted to do when I was not working.  That model.... has worked extremely well for me, as it did for my parents, and has for my younger brother.

His mom and I were clear with SS. if we paid, he could pick between a STEM category or Business as his undergrad major. If he went another route, he paid for it.  Ultimately he has gone the STEM direction (computer science) though the taxpayers via the USAF are paying for his University studies.

Mermaid thing didn't work out?

She needs one of those $2200 Mac book pro. So she will not have computer problems next year.   MCATS are only given once a year.   

Whos SD wanted to be professional mermaid and that was YOU dear lady

Thanks for the update. I too am going "dormant" in steplife. We are pretty much empty nesters now that SD24 Feral Forger is living in beach town in a house share down the road from Toxic Troll BM and SD16almost17 Powersulk in their section 8 by-the-beach apartment. Us being about 25 miles away makes it easy. Visitation is currently at zero. Not much absence drama and grades I dont even know.

NOW you get to really hunker down and enjoy life without step dramz.