http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-stop-enabling-when-our-gr... - How to stop enabling adult children
http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/05/setting-boundaries-with-your-adu... Boundaries With Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/03/boomerang-kids-how-to-kick-grown... http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/03/boomerang-kids-how-to-kick-grown...

All the links go to the same site and the site has no nonsense advice for a wide range of issues.

This link is on how to manipulate your parents. I think a lot of skids must have read this http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/10/how-to-manipulate-parents-and-ge...