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Update to my approach with SO on puppy and what BM might pull.

MissK03's picture

Well, SO called me to say that BM texted him to tell him how proud she was of SD for her teachers recommendation to put her into advanced science next year. (She will be starting high school) SD brought this up last night already but, the teacher sent an email today to them. 
 

Blah blah blah BM you don't contribuate to any part of actually raising these kids. 
 

Anyways, I used this as a way to bring up if he thinks BM will try to see SD and want to have a driveway play time. He said BM WILL NOT see this dog. It is our dog not hers. If she wants to play with a dog she can play with hers. He goes of she wants to see her skids can send pics. This stems back to her stunt of coming into the house in November. 

Finally something I didn't have to fight him about haha. 

I also asked him if BM mentioned anything about taxes and he said yeah last week. He didn't tell me that.. kind of annoyed me but whatever. Lucky her gets to claim 2 this year. 
 

Now.. every time SO has multiple conversations with BM in a short period of time something always happens. He has had contact with her 3 times in one week. Then she will pull something because her delusional thoughts I think start flying. It's never about skids it's always comes back to SO. 

It's like OH! SO is texting me... maybe he will forgive me for all my sins and we will be BFFs again!! SO thinks it has to do with her meds.... I mean, maybe but I just think it's her. 
 

Sidenote: I'm also shocked she didn't try coming to the house to see the boys cars and try to teach them how to drive. I figured it's free so she might. They got their permits in December and they have both gotten cars now. They have had the cars for like 2/3 weeks now. They can't drive them until they have their licenses clearly because the aren't register or insured yet but I thought she would use that as another drive way session. 
 

I told SO maybe BM hasn't taken them driving because she doesn't want something happening to her car and then she will have to pay for something LOL. 

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tog redux's picture

How will you stop it from happening when you aren't home, though? That BM you deal with is pretty manipulative.

And does she pay CS? Why does she get to claim both kids if not?

MissK03's picture

She will text SO if she is coming to the house. Which is very rare anyways. I asked him if he was going to bring it up and he said I'll let in play out and IF she happens to try and see one of them he will say don't bring the dog out. 
 

She pays ZERO child support. He didn't go after her for child support.

They always did one claims 2 the other 1 then switch the following year. So it's her year to claim 2. He just lets her. He said not worth the fight. 

It makes me so angry though.. especially with the stimulus money that she will get because of it. SO doesn't get all of the stimulus because of his salary but I'm sure she's filing quick because of that reason. Now she will have 2 out of 3 as dependents instead of 1. 
 

She has no morals and SO is just like she's the one that has to live with herself.

Thumper's picture

BM pays nothing for the kids but claims them on taxes.

OH nope nope nope. Your so should rush to file his taxes before she does.

JMO Wink

Tell bm to buzz off your property.