BM opened a FB account for SD12. BM has the password for it but refused to give DH the password. Both DH and I blocked BM from our FB accounts.

SD now wants to add DH, and that's his daughter and he doesn't have the password so of course he wants to add her esp. in order to monitor her a little bit as she is becoming a teenager.

This means BM will have full access to his profile. He doesn't seem to care, but I feel weird about it. And I know I'd feel pretty terrible if he puts anything about being sad, frustrated, depressed or stressed as his status and BM sees it because it would give her something to gloat about.

SD has also been taking pics of BioBaby on her cell phone. She wants to put up pics of BioBaby on FB. And I am about to have a meltdown. I am SUPER careful about anything I put on FB. DH KNOWS to ask first before he posts any pics of me there. But he was so excited to get this chance to connect with SD that he was about to give her a pic of her and BioBaby to put up WITHOUT asking me first and WITHOUT having SD added as a friend to even be able to monitor.

SD is becoming a mini version of BM - sneaky, deceitful, manipulative, lazy, materialistic.
I think she's a good child at heart, but the influence of her mother is invading our household and now I do not trust her one bit. Also, it makes me very sad to know that BM's negative influence will reach my BioBaby because SD is the big sister.