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Reality Check

jojo68's picture

This weekend was the first weekend in a long time that my BF daughter was not there. I am thinking....we will get to catch up on some much needed one on one time. We went a couple places...came home watched TV....nice and quiet. All my hopes of having a nice quiet weekend alone with my guy were pretty much ruined by my BF's depression over his daughter not being there for only a day and a half. He moped around and talked about how much he missed her. I'm at a loss in what to do. It makes me feel so "unspecial" I honestly feel if I were gone for a day and half he wouldn't even miss me other than the fact there would be no one there to clean up and cook. I don't know why I feel this way...he does have moments or else I would have been long gone. I guess I am just really having a hard time with always being on the back burner. One thing positive though is that my resentment of Princess is gone....none of this is her fault...it is 100% my BF's obsession.

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starfish's picture

how did you lose that resentment?? congrats!!!

i'm sorry bf is such a buzz killer when his offspring isn't shoved up his ass...

jojo68's picture

I don't really know...when BF acted this way this weekend I realized that he is the reason I feel the way I do...it is the way that he treats me is the reason I feel neglected. Something hit me in the head and I realized I should not resent Princess...it is him not her that makes me feel this way.