ndc, I am guessing that he is going off of what BM and SD told him.  I could be wrong.  He just sent me a text about it.  When I questioned it being another bite and going to the dr for it he spewed out that additional information.  I agree.  If she had that bad of a reaction definitely worthy of a dr visit.  However, I'm having a hard time buying it based on their history of over exaggerating injuries/etc.  Plus, again guessing, but if she had that reaction before I would have noticed because she is constantly in your face on visits.  You can't not notice her.  That would also be a major attention grabber and something she would definitely brag about.  

I likely won't see her tonight b/c I'll be taking my son to dance while she is visiting.  If I do though I will update.  

thinkthrice, with these 2 and their flair for dramatics and manipulation I wouldn't be surprised if it was a BM or self induced punch to the face.  That was the "first" bite that I never heard of until today.  Not sure where this 2nd bite is....

Oh, you know it would be even worse if it happened at my home!  OMG, yes, everything is overly significant or overly dramatized.  At this point I just find it comical.  Usually DH is with me on it being ridiculous.  We are fighting today though so he has to revert back to being over protective and defensive! LOL

Surprisingly she is on BM's insurance.  That is why I find it a bit comical how often she takes her.  BM works for a school so I think she has good insurance that covers most of the expenses....otherwise we would be getting bills for co-pays etc for our 16%.  Since we just got married I can add SD to my insurance.  I'm still debating on whether or not that is a good idea.  It would be secondary to BMs.  I have decent insurance through the federal employee health benefit plan so it isn't one of those high deductable crap plans at least.  

LMFAO, you are probably correct! She is almost 12!  OMG, that would be so hilarious!  I almost hope it is a zit now and I can't wait to see how they make a zit into something even bigger!  

Goodluck, yes, if it is indeed a spider bite from a spider like a brown recluse (not sure how to spell that) or another poisonous spider that is true.  Given SD and BM's history on embellishing injuries I am pretty sure GrabItandGO is probably right....it is a zit! LOL

I myself have had spider bites.  They are slightly painful and there is a little bit of swelling but I would never rush off to the dr for it unless it was ooozing pus or I had a fever or some other symptom along with it.  

Clove, I think I remember you telling me before that you have this same issue.  It is truly disturbing.  It is never ending.  OMG, my SD has "sports induced asthma" which she developed when she first started cheer and they made her run.  SD hates running.  Now she has an inhaler she uses before bed (and has to be reminded to use).  It is crazy.  I have seen her play on the trampoline for hours or ride her bike all around and never once have I seen her struggle with breathing....only when she is with BM and usually only at a cheer event.  Last attack was when the cheer coaches were being so overly mean with her and expecting her to know her moves!  Gasp!  Oh and she had anxiety for a long time too.  They gave her some sort of antacid for that.  She was "allergic" to milk for a long time too until I told her she couldn't have ice cream at my house if she was allergic to milk b/c that is the main ingredient!  

I feel like it is a weird control mechanism and definitely used to guilt daddeeee.  If he doesn't believe in her "hidden/undetectable" injuries he is definitely berated for it! It is truly just CRAZY!!!!!

Yep, we should definitely keep SD from BM's home now and it is justifiable.  This is for her own safety.  This is the 2nd bite.  She needs to have her whole house debugged and cleaned before we can allow precious back there with all the big bad spiders! 

If she can even find someone to marry her!  She will be a PITA for ever and super high maintenance.