We've been married for a year on the 18th. Most of it has been pretty miserable, but we are dedicated to making it work and trying very hard to see what we will look like (or be doing) five years or even ten years from now. Last evening we talked about SD's behavior and the patterns of her behavior. Dad saw a glimpse of her that he normally chooses not to see, how sad for all of us. Mostly her... Anyway, for today and this weekend, I will choose to make my own way, my own happiness and NOT think about SD and her chaotic way of life.