Just splashing down some FEELINGS about living with rude, lazy, lying disrespectful .... wait a minute... (googles & finds my situ already well-defined:)

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arrogant [ ar-uh-guhnt ]

Main Entry: arrogant

Part of Speech: adjective

Definition: having exaggerated self-opinion

Synonyms: aloof, assuming, audacious, autocratic, biggety, bossy, bragging, cavalier, cheeky, cocky, cold-shoulder, conceited, contemptuous, cool*, disdainful, domineering, egotistic, haughty, high and mighty, high-handed, imperious, insolent, know-it-all, lordly, on an ego trip, overbearing, peremptory, pompous, presumptuous, pretentious, proud, puffed up, scornful, self-important, smarty, smug, sniffy, snippy, snooty, snotty, stuck up, supercilious, superior, swaggering, uppity, vain, wise guy

Antonyms: humble, meek, servile, unconceited

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