Yep.. just like a bad Mo Fo penny. SD20 was "home" from 12/16-12/30 and I didn't have to see her once, which was splendid. However, DH was pissed on 12/30 because in usual SD20 fashion, she waited until the last minute to secure a ride to the airport and asked DH if he could do it... which meant him driving 30 minutes to friend's house where she was staying, then SD needed him to stop at BM's house because SD left her laptop and other shit there, then to airport which was another 45 minutes in opposite direction... oh and the roads were shit. BS8 birthday party was same day and of course same time that DH needed to have her at the airport, so DH couldn't go to BS8 party. Of course I'm use to that, can't tell you how many birthdays have been ruined by skids.

So later that night, DH tells me that SD called him and told him that she wants to quit college and move back to our state and work at sporting good store where she'll make minimum wage. Which of course will be more than enough to pay off her student loans that she's racked up over the past 2 years, as well as rent and living the high life like SD likes to do! (eye roll) DH told her she is not living at our house. SD asked if maybe we could renovate the upstairs of our garage so that she could live out there. LMAO. What an ignorant bitch. She.is.not.stepping.foot.on.my.property. She also mentioned that she'd probably be OK with bills with her paycheck and the money that DH gives her each month. DH told her to back the fuck up... that the only reason he is giving her money each month now, is because she is in school. That if she leaves school, that gravy train will be over. Sometimes even I can't fathom how entitled this snot is!

I told DH I saw this coming 10,000 miles away. The ONLY reason she went to college was because her BF was. Aunt J had her accepted at 3 different colleges, of course SD chose the one that BF was going to. I told DH, she'd last as long as her and BF were together... and looky here! SD and BF break up in October and now she doesn't want to be at college anymore. Doesn't think she wants to be a speech therapist anymore, she now thinks she wants to be a prison guard. Cause ya know, her weirdo uncle (BM1 brother) is a guard and he makes good money and really does nothing all day.

DH says, she's a big girl adult now and can do what she wants. If she wants to quit school, two years in, then oh well. Quit and live with the consequences. If she wants to move back to our state, can't stop her, but he said he's not allowing her to live with us and since she's a big girl adult, she can figure out her living arrangements.

I have to say I am very proud of DH for putting our household and marriage first... finally!!! And we actually were able to talk civilly about this whole mess. No blame game, no guilt trip about letting her live at our house. In the past couple of years he has allowed himself to remove those stupid rose colored glasses and see SD for who she truly is. He enjoys our drama free home as much as I do and wishes to keep it that way.