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PAS from the child viewpoint.

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Submitted by Confused.com on Mon, 06/26/2017 - 10:43am

I don't know if this has already been posted but it's fascinating. Seeing what PAS is like from the child's view.

https://www.facebook.com/Fathers4kids/videos/1580594618637691/

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Pharlap's picture

Submitted by Pharlap on Mon, 06/26/2017 - 2:46pm

I need to save this so that every time I think BM is being a psycho, I am reminded of how much worse it could really be.

WTF? Forcing the kid inside to watch while your shitty family members whisper stupidity into their ears? What makes anybody think this is okay???

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Submitted by ntm on Mon, 06/26/2017 - 9:46pm

Everyone says that one day they'll figure it out, but the BM's grip on them seems so tight and they seem so clueless stating verbally what she has said in emails that you can't believe it will ever happen. I have to say, you never saw two kids fly the coop so fast as the SDs did, to the point that DH is still paying CS for SD19 even though she is no longer living with BM. One wonders if they did figure it out. Or if she kicked them out so she could live off the CS without having to actually provide for them.

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Submitted by moving_on_again on Tue, 06/27/2017 - 10:47am

The skids in my life ebb and flow. Sometimes they are cordial and even normal, but when BM is around, they act like they don't know who we are. However, as they get older, they aren't around BM as much and reach out to SO and I more. Although, they all know enough of BM's manipulative ways that sometimes I think it would be better if they didn't reach out. Makes me sad for the guy in the video, I am sure he has a lot of issues, too, from what his own BM put him through.