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SO obsessed with SD22

SMforever's picture

SO has a fairly spartan house, which I have shared with him for a year or so. When I say spartan, I mean not any art or fancy decorations, just plain sort of nordic no carpets and very clean.

Except for the numerous framed photos of SD22 everywhere. On the walls, the living room tables, the hallway, beside the bed...SD22 staring at us. He even has a poster sized collage over his desk of pictures of her playing sports that he put together himself. No photos whatever of his sons! One of my sons visited for the first time recently and remarked 'erm, it would appear that Someone has an obsession'. I just smirked and the comment flew right over SO's oblivious head. I later told my son it's not worth arguing about, but tbh, it does bug me all the time. She does closely resemble BM, that's probably what bugs me.

Any ideas...

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IDK, that might be a red framed flag for me. Why no pics of his sons?

SMforever's picture

He has two bio sons in their 20's, on good terms...and they never mention the photo thing. Sometimes I think I'm the only one who notices it.

I did put up some photos of my own sons in the second bedroom where I use the desk to work at, and he even made a sarcastic remark about it. I just ignored that. Some things just aren't worth squabbling about, but I think we have a fairly obsessed man on the go. Not to worry, I can be observant and pragmatic. Jury still out on this one.

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Good idea, will silently try that. I want to trigger a discussion, but not make it look as though I'm the jealous dragon. SD is pleasant enough, but he drops everything when she calls, and that too is annoying. She lives with her own partner, but still plays Daddee like a violin.

Acratopotes's picture

I would furiously begin dusting.... oeps sorry there goes a picture... replace it with one of his son's....

bedroom oh hell no... if it's not me naked hanging on the wall or on the bed side table, there iwll be no photo's in the bedroom, remove all of them...