WTF... right!!!!!!!
I am beyond glad that this little B we all know as Bacon is not a spawn of mine! I think that i may actually die if any of my bio children acted like this. It has gotten to the point that I truly want to leave, with a note on the counter that say " Thank your little B child for our children having a broken home " ( not really) How can someone sit by and let their child act like she does and be okay with it? Screaming at an adult, sitting on her fat ass all day long, screaming at other children in the house. I have disengaged. She was supposed to keep an eye on her sisters while i stepped out to help DH in his wood shop for a min. This has happened a million times and its no big deal. I came inside to grab a drink and was going back out, she was held up in her room with the door shut and Mt. Dew all over my kitchen floor (thank you 2 yr old lol) I opened the door and walked away that way she could at least hear the other kids. ALL F-ING HELL BROKE LOOSE!!!! I am not your kid, you cant talk to me, My door was shut because i shut it.... I listen to my mom and dad because they love and care about me you dont.... Blah blah blah. I just stood there and smiled and when she was done i said okay and walked away. she slammed the door so i opened it again and went out side. Told DH about it and all the shit that she had said (because he had asked) and he said well i told you to stay out of her room. F-ING PRICK!!!!!!!!!!!! I am beyond done with today and its only 2 pm.
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I am afraid i would take it
I am afraid i would take it out in the yard and burn it along with her tablet and all other electronics lol!! But thats fine, DH wants to think its okay for his little piggy princess to talk to me like a dog... fine. I suddenly have a headache for the next year when it comes to bed time!
my mother did that to me as a
my mother did that to me as a child. No door nothing but a bed in the room will instill some act right really quick.
Your DH is the problem... he
Your DH is the problem... he is allowing this to happen.
DH thought he was going to let MSD talk to me like that one time. I reminded him where the door was and how I wasn't afraid to make him use it.
Is your DH still breathing?
Is your DH still breathing? I seriously doubt mine would be after saying that.
I forget your story. Who's house is it? How old is SD?
Short version: DH and i have
Short version:
DH and i have been together for 8yrs married for almost 7. BM lost custody almost 6yrs ago when she moved outta state with a registered sex offender ( her bb sitter ). so we have had Bacon full time aside from every other weekend for about 6 yrs now. Thats when she became the hell spawn. Bacon is 10 will be 11 next month.
It is our marital home we are buying. moved in last year
In that case, I would do as
In that case, I would do as Daizy says below. I wouldn't tolerate that sort of disrespect in my home. Be sure to address SD and DH.
I have disengaged barring the
I have disengaged barring the yes or no answers. even a go ask your dad thrown in there. but as of now and i just told DH this... Not one work. Completely pulling away. not even so much as glancing in her direction. I am sick of it so as far as i am concerned she doesnt exist.
he said well i told you to
he said well i told you to stay out of her room
OH HELL NO! Who owns this house? Certainly not Bacon? I would have grabbed the cordless drill while I was in the prick's woodworking shop and I would have had her bedroom door off it's hinges in 5 minutes, then I would have taken the drill back outside and kicked him in the nuts.
No wonder Bacon acts like a ignorant hog... she obviously gets it from her parents.
How the crap did you not lose
How the crap did you not lose your mind on DH?
he will get his. just not on
he will get his. just not on the front lawn like a crazy lady lol! he will need me to do something for him, or her or just anything in general. not gonna happen. He is on his own for a while just like her.
Hahaha! I am not laughing at
Hahaha! I am not laughing at you, just laughing at the thought of my SD or my DH talking to me like that. And living afterwards.
A lot of disrespect goin' on there!
No beer, smokes, or netflix
No beer, smokes, or netflix in prison!!! and either on of then are worth giving my greys anatomy reruns up for!!
Surely you can outwit a f-ing
Surely you can outwit a f-ing 10 year old. And a worthless stupid DH.
working on it, but after 8
working on it, but after 8 years my material is becoming redundant! lol but in all seriousness i am to the point that freezing them out is kinda what i have resorted to
(im a waitress) I will be
(im a waitress) I will be saving up my ones and will be rewarding my 6 year old for chores and my 2 year old for picking up her toys. Then Bacon can see what she is missing out on my "not being my kid" and then DH can listen to her crap about it. when he wants to tell me how unfair it is that i am not including Bacon in this... Well he can get with BM and work something out, Im simply teaching "my kids" that work pays off!
UGH totally sucks. And sad
UGH totally sucks. And sad that DH does that. Mine does too. Their precious babies can't do any wrong....well they can and do, they just don't see it; and DH thinks the problem is us?! NOT. This is exactly why you must disengage and have DH clean up the mess. I feel for you cause I've been there.
Thank you! If your situation
Thank you! If your situation sucks like mine then i feel for you as well!! I call Bacon Princess to DH because thats how he treats her. He says well you start it, or You shouldnt bother her, If you would just leave her alone then none of this would have happened..... SUCH CRAP! We shouldnt be made to feel like a visitor in our own home. When i have finally had enough for the day i like to unplug the wifi! ya know because as someone who is not her mother and the person who pays for the damn internet that is one of the few things i get to "take away" from her!! I get such joy out of it lol! (How ever childish it may seem)