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Submitted by steponmeagain on Mon, 01/04/2016 - 8:25pm

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After SS20 moved back home Dec. 1 for the 4th time, he did say he would be here for a month. And that his car, which is off the road and trashed would only be here a couple of days. I kind of laughed at both but said last weekend, its approaching 4 weeks for the car and it is gone this weekend or else I will make it gone. Not that he needs it now, just found out that he has lost his license for 4 months again for driving like an idiot. Guess he isn't too concerned about moving out now without a drivers license. This is not going to end well.

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Submitted by robin333 on Mon, 01/04/2016 - 8:46pm

A month has passed - time to bring up the discussion with SO. No reason for it to not end well. You have honored your agreement. It has been fulfilled Smile

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Submitted by steponmeagain on Mon, 01/04/2016 - 8:52pm

I did bring it up and she asked if there was a problem with that. She goes all mama bear when I talk bad about her son. She isn't doing him any favors trying to fix all his problems, cleaning his room, etc.

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Submitted by robin333 on Mon, 01/04/2016 - 9:01pm

Oh, wow. Your DW is cleaning SS'S room? Talk about enabling.

She asked if SS staying is a problem? Did you express your feelings about that? Yes, I said feelings - women relate better with "I feel" statements. Did you tell her that you felt frustrated that the situation has changed and you feel excluded from a decision to extend SS'S stay that affects you?