I wrote before about the crazy BM that is holding off on agreeing with any of the proposals to settle this thing once and for all. Well a few weeks ago it seemed like she was ready to try and negotiate. Now that SS15 has seen the light and wants to stay with us she was desperate to make sure that they would have equal custody of the kid. On top of that she wants to claim the kid for taxes for 2 yrs. No cs from either and SO will pay insurance. Ok not too bad, she actually comes out ahead. But then, she comes up with that she wants SO to help her pay her student loans to get her off of wage garnishment. Before they separated she had consolidated both their loans. SO only owed about $3500 and she had the rest which totaled almost 30k. When he left he gave her $1000 per mo for kids and to help make the payment. Well,go figure, she stopped paying opting to go to Vegas and buy new tv's and whatever because when she would run short she would guilt him into giving her more so the kids could have electricity or gas or whatever. Eventually, since it was in her name, they garnished her check. She now owes $128k. We now have college for SD18 and all of SS school clothes and band expenses. So she wanted him to pay a yrs worth of payments then renegotiate the loan so that he would pay for a 1/3 of loan. Lol! Oh get this... If she dies then the kids get stuck with her loan and it's not fair for them to pay for their mistakes. He told her he was giving her full cs for 3 yrs and still buying extra stuff for the kids so why she hadn't paid wasn't his concern. Our lawyer said that since the loan was in her name it wasn't an issue. Ok. So now she has started dragging her ass again and SO received an email about his credit report and now that new payment plan that this dumb bxxch was talking about now shows up as a joint debt for 128k! When we checked his accts from college it all showed as paid. He had mostly grants. How the hell did she pull this crap?? He never agreed to any of the loan crap. He thinks she may have forged his signature. But who knows. Needless to say he's calling the atty tomorrow to get her input first. I can not stand this woman!!
Lemme know what you guys think.