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Submitted by EFlores90 on Tue, 05/12/2015 - 4:10pm

I feel bad about saying this and I'm sure I have said it before but I can't stand the skid! I wish he would hurry up and grow up already. Now I understand why in moves the step mother is the evil one and wants the kid to be shipped away. I just don't have it in me to be affectionate or have a cute nice name for my BF son (8 yr old). He is just such a brat. And to top it off I feel like when he hugs me or talks to me and says something sweet its so fake! is it possible for an 8 yr old to be fake?

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Tue, 05/12/2015 - 4:54pm

thank you so much! I love this site! Only step parents can relate because even if you tell your closest friends how you feel they may not relate.
His son is only sweet and hugging me when others are around. I just can't bring myself to hug him or kiss him myself. I love when he's not around and when we go out, the three of us I definitely do not look forward to it.

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Submitted by Physics guy on Tue, 01/08/2019 - 12:26pm

You are right.  I don't think that non-step parents really realize how everything changes when someone is put in the position of being a step parent.  It's difficult.

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Tue, 01/08/2019 - 12:35pm

Ohhh yes. My SD was already learning to be fake and manipulative at 4. Now at 7.5 almost everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie and being manipulative is just her default way of operating. She cant just ask for something, she needs to trick it put of you do be satisfied. Shes always been a fake crier and way fake over the top emotions but I rarely see much of any actual emotions from her. Its really weird but yes definitely possible.