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The conversation that I did not hear.

Drac0's picture

Yesterday, I was not in a good place. I am seriously worried about my health to let these issues get to me. SS was sick yesterday (no, he wasn’t faking). I had the exact same symptoms he is having last week.

DW took the day off work to take him to see the doctor. She was really eager about it.

“I’m going to talk to him about FLA.”

I literally wanted to scream. So all day yesterday, I felt like I was on pins and needles. I couldn’t concentrate on my work even. I wanted to rush home and duct-tape DW’s mouth shut. And then I thought to myself. “Why am I feeling this way? This isn’t right.”

I arrived home hoping to dear Lord that DW didn’t convince SS to change his mind about the trip.

I got my answer as soon as I walked in the door. DW looked like she was in a sour mood. This is a good sign. I feel bad for writing that, but if DW looked down, then obviously she wasn’t successful in convincing SS to change his mind. And the beauty about all this is that I didn’t say a thing!

When the subject came up, all DW had to say on the subject was “Next time we have SS for the weekend, can we all do something together? Like go out somewhere?”.

I said “Of course honey, what would you like to do?”

DW was thinking of going skiing/sliding at one of the parks.

“SS can invite his friends or Vicky.” DW suggested

“And what does SS want to do?” I asked.

DW went mute. She didn’t have to say anything because judging from the way DW and SS were acting, it looked like they got into an argument and it didn’t end well.

And all the while I am thinking Good! Let Tall-boy convince his mother that he is just an *sshole that only cares about himself and his electronic gadgets.

After supper, SS went into his room, shut the door and stayed there all evening.

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Drac0's picture

Judging from the way things are going, I do see SS moving in with his Dad.

Well, I do and I don't. From what I hear, SS's stepmom wears the pants in that household.

Drac0's picture

I cannot help but wonder if I am partly to blame for this. I told SS last week when this project fiasco happend "You may have your mother fooled, but I know exactly what you are doing and it disgusts me!" Since then, SS won't even come near me.

Drac0's picture

DW is a big girl and can handle herself, but I still cannot help but don the "white knight" costume. SS's manipulations to me is tantamount to disrespect and SS has been treating DW like a doormat of late. Yeah, I probably shouldn't have said that, but I can't just sit back and watch my wife be disrespected like that (even by her own son).

Tuff Noogies's picture

oh draco... the truth hurts, that's why he's avoiding you. but he's 15, no need to cushion him from the reality that HE is causing for himself.

i wouldnt add any more into this for now, until his grades come out. let him hang himself. it'll be painful for your dw to see his true colors come out, but it's a necessary process. just be there for her like you always are.

Drac0's picture

I agree. Which is why I am not even chasing him to give me his electronics after he turns in at night. Let him enjoy this last week of priveleges before I take it all away. It's going to be that much more painful.

Tuff Noogies's picture

LMAO!!!!!!

ETA - TallBoy, I am altering the deal; pray i do not alter it any further. (stated upon your stepping back until progress report time)
}:) Blum 3

Drac0's picture

Drac0's Law:
As internet discussions get more protracted, the chances of someone quoting or making a reference to Star Wars or Star Trek increases. Should this occur, any and all arguments stop and the person making the quote is declared the winner of the discussion.

Merry's picture

I just used a Star Trek quote for a presentation at work. It was my presentation, so I declare myself the winner!

Drac0's picture

Smile

DW and I got caught up on a few shows we've missed: "Gotham" and "Supernatural"

And you're still my hero BTW...

Drac0's picture

tog, that logic won't work with DW. I know exactly what DW would say "Yeah but Donkeykong gets all the 'fun time' with SS and we don't! It's not fair! Poor SS never gets to spend quality time with us. Poor me, I never get to do any fun -family activities with ALL my kids together..."

But DW seems a little better today about this today though.