Until about a month or two ago I have stopped trying with the skids and I chose to stay away at all costs. I have been with my DH for lil over five years and two years ago he decided it was time for me to meet his kids SD13 and SD6 things were now getting serious. Initially I thought I love this man surely I will love his kids as well but you now I find myself consumed with disgust for them just thinking about them I want to throw up. I have had these Skids just be plain rude to me and he didn't see at all nothing at all. The SD13 would chat to her mom about me in front of her, would walk in with all amounts of attitude banging doors even friends that would come over would say that child has major attitude. When I realised just how stressful it was to be around these kids I decided that when they came to visit daddy for the week am gona be gone. Back at the ranch lil miss drama drama mini wife sweet lil voice at 13 is the filthiest child out of the two. Everything is thrown on the floor her panties, socks, clothes,pantliners pens,hairbands, magazines everything is on the floor and she will leave her shoes on the bed, Lets just says where she goes there is a trail of dirt. To be honest my feelings for them changed when I realised that DH is suffering from the disney dad syndrome. We have a child together who is 3 but this child of ours gets less love than his precious two from the broken marriage.

The BM works but earns a low salary meanwhile DH has to pay for everything for the skids the healthinsurance, school fees, clothing, hair, school transports everything you name it everything. They have 50/50 custody and he has to pay child support for the week that she has them. For our child he only pays for her creche fees and transport thats it. So what I noticed was that when he had money he would make sure that his skids get their hair done, pay their fees first and tell me he will give me the money for our bio child when he gets more money, this man after getting the skids hair done, he would take pictures of the SD6 his favourite and save it as a wall paper, rush the SD6 to his mother’s house to show her how cute she looks BTW she has be the ugliest girl ever. He will run around for his skids even prepare food for them, wash the bathroom for them but when they not there, he can't do eisht for our bio.He sees the skids every morning to take them to school but yet the week they are not there hes has them saved as his wallpaper, just them two SD13 & SD6 our bio child NEVER never been saved as a wall paper although he also doesn’t see her for a week. So one day I just packed my things and told him to stay with his beloveds because clearly they mean more to him. My dislike for them has more than doubled or tripled because of jealousy maybe who knows but I just find myself just not wanting to be around them. Now DH yesterday read a few posts on this because he saw on it and wanted to see what I was reading. I reading the posts he just suddenly became moody and and give me the evil eye and when I would ask why his giving me the evil eye he would deny it and call me crazy………all am saying is that this blended family is hard esp when the BM is low down lazy slob that demands money for everything under the sun. looks like am heading into the singles world again 