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beeboo's picture

It all started in aug we got all calll to come get his kids. their bio mom had a stroke wich turns out was a lie. they told us she had it that day but really it was months before. found out later that 13 year old sd had a fight with her step dad.the real reason we made a 4 hour drive to get them.well i was so happy to get to have them here with us .until they went home for their first visit and came home diffrent kids they no longer wanted to listen and started lying about stuff.the 13year old sd. convinved her mom to divorce her stepdad.as soon as the m,om said she would the 13 year old sd told her mom to come get her. their mom showed up in the middle of the night to get her.she left the 8 year old behind. when asked the 13 year old sd said that everything was my fault she saying i said stuff that i didnt and is telling her mom i said awful things. now their mom hates me.

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Amazed's picture

I wouldn't stress about their mom hating you honey...some women just always find a reason to hate. Save the worrying and the wrinkles and just stop concerning yourself on how their mother feels about you...I guarantee she isn't concerned with how YOU feel so don't give her the power to affect your head.

You are certainly NOT alone my dear. The 13 yr old sounds like she needs some serious discipline and mom doesn't seem like much of a parental figure. Sounds very immature and confusing to me.

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." ~Judy Garland