I am new to this blogging world, but I needed to reach out to anyone who has dealt with a bio father who has done everything in his power to manipulate and turn her children against their mother (my wife). It is the most relentless display of manipulation and devisive attacks I have ever seen. But to make matters worse, its the kids and her love for them that he uses as the biggest gun in his arsenal. Using everything from the classic "if you live with me... I will..." to bad mouthing their mother and myself, to even "coaching" on things to say to their mom, that are hurtful, disrespectful etc. Then of course denying it all, and wording things to make himself sound like he is a "stand up father"...Its unreal and I am at a loss. I am thinking that someone has dealt with this at some level. As her husband I love her dearly and want to protect her, but short of just hiring a hitman I feel like its so futile.. Any thoughts?