OK I have a SD who is 6 years old, she has been around me sense birth and she started staying the weekends at my home when she was 3, when her father and i got together. Then when she was 4 and a half she moved in full time. I don't know why but she bothers me, i don't even want to be around her and when i am around her i am b****y, everything she does bugs me, she is 6 but she acts like a 3 year old. For example, This morning i was getting her ready for school and i was brushing the braid out of her hair and putting it into a pony tail well she got upset because she wanted her hair to stay wavy from the braid but i had to brush it so i told her it needed to be brushed and she got an attitude with me so i told her to go to her room and she starts crying like a baby and saying "I don't want to, I don't want to" i had to tell he about 6 or 7 times before i had to pick her up off of the couch and take her to her room. then when i shut the door she starts kicking and banging on it. That is just one occasion, this happens on a daily basis and my poor Husband cant take it any more, neither can i, i want to get along with her, i really do but i just cant wait for the weekends when she gos to her moms, if she gos. Ayn suggestions would be very helpful, i want to be happy and i want my husband to be happy. I also have 2 of my own children, my daughter 2yrs and my son 5mos