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The cycle continues

overworkedmom's picture

I posted yesterday about having the divorce talk when I was at work. We had ended that conversation with "there is nothing left to salvage, everything is overworked's fault, and the only thing he has ever done wrong is work to hard for our family" :sick:

There were a few more calls after that- ranging from sad, to angry to pleading. He even threatened suicide at one point. I called BS on that one real fast and reminded him that I rode that roller coaster with my ex for years and I will be damned if I do that again. Anyway, by the time I got home he was all "Every couple fights, we are going to be ok"

WHAT the F?!?! No, we won't be. I am working on getting out. I have another appointment to see a place at 3 today. Cross your finders for me!! I just need to get through the next 14 days and then I can go.

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twoviewpoints's picture

If you can't safely wait the next 14 days, please just go to your parents. You can look for a place from there. I don't trust your DH to not go nuts on you (I keep thinking of the dinner and knife incident from a while back). If he realizes he's not going to 'win' this one, he may turn nasty and quick. Please take care of yourself and don't take any chances when it comes to your kiddos.

I hope today's hunt goes well for you.