SO has recently become FDH! He will be moving into my home after we get married and it will be a great opportunity for the Skids, 4 and 6. (One of which is not even in school yet).

FDH has not told BM about the engagement as we don't feel it is any of her business apart from 30 days before we move. She, however, found out through the kids and asked FDH where the kids would go to school because "eventually" she would be moving too.

FDH did not respond as he took this as BM's opportunity to start a fight.

Where will the kids go to school?
So far this week, BM has needed overnight babysitters every single night to accommodate her "Work". She keeps them maybe one night a week. So, naturally, I think they should go to the school district she lives in and the overnight babysitters can drive that distance every day, right?