So Dh called Bm's mom house to ask Bm's mother if Bm has said anything about not letting him pick up Ss5, he wanted to call her first before he text Bm(Bm lives with her mom and Bm's mom is pretty much does most of the child rearing for BM). Bm's mom says Bm didn't say anything to her and that Ss5 is home because it's fall break and gives the phone to Ss5, Ss immediately starts asking when Dh is going to pick him up and Dh tells him he doesn't know if he'll be able to pick him up today because Bm said he couldn't see him. Ss gets upset and starts to cry and ask his mom (apparently Bm was there) why she won't let his daddy pick him. Bm jumps on the phone and tells Dh he can come get Ss5. I already kind of figured she wasn't going to really w/h visitation, I do however think that if Dh would have just text Bm straight off that she would have told him to go F himself but because Dh called and talked to Ss she has to of course look like the better person in front of Ss. lol. it's all so silly to me. Dh is acting like this is some victory. I told him he still needs to get his shit together and get his visitation on the parenting plan in place. I'm sick of this crap happening... Don't get me wrong, it doesn't happen often but when it does it makes me rethink wtf I got myself into. bleh.

On a side note, although I'm disapointed that I won't have a kid free weekend, I'm happy Ss is going to get to come over. I know how much he enjoys being at our house and I was a little sad for him.