skids had their first visit with their new doc today BM has repeated withheld preventative regular medical care as far as we know. These kids have not seen a primary care pediatrician since they were both infants (guessing 5 years) only getting shots at the health dept and BM taking them to the ER. They were so excited, sd even said it would all be okay if they had to get shots (luckily school has made that a requirement so BM has had to) sd is overweight the kids are Irish twins (13 mo apart) the same height only she's 20lbs heavier than she should be (thanks BM for donuts everyday for breakfast before they go to school and eat their free second breakfast.
The doc isn't concerned about ss's behavior and impulse issues in school at this time it isn't affecting him academically (test scores end of last year were above average)
SO sent BM a text after informing her that since she had never set the kids up with a pcp he now has and gave a brief bullet point on the results supplied her with office info and that from now forward all medical will be received there unless they are ill and the office is closed or it's an emergency in which case she should call 911.

Now they can't wait to see a dentist in two weeks for the first time ever and ss's rotten baby tooth can be pulled since the adult tooth is FUBR'd because it never fell out and when BM had all control she never did anything about it (once tried to say she "text" the dentist when he busted his moth and lessened a couple teeth that "he can't get stitches in his mouth the dentist says the mouth has too much bacteria and they don't stitch in the mouth"
I laughed at her I couldn't help it I've had stitches in my mouth, know lots of people who have I laughed and told her that was the stupidest statement I've ever heard she text the dentist lol. Finally getting proper care yay!
BM also threatened to take SO back to court because her neighbors called the cops over the screaming when she was hitting her kid with a belt (not SO's kid) the cops said it wasn't excessive and did nada but somehow she's decided that all of this helps her in court, for whatever it is she is pretending she will be taking him back for. He's also filing for cs her income is double his they have joint but he is primary and unemployed, that'll go over great but well screw her the kids deserve better.