BM taking out frustrations on the kids
BM had visitation tonight for 2 hours...
Kids came back a wreck.
The 10 year old boy said that while the kids were squabbling back and forth, BM chimed in that the boy was "just mad at (his younger sister) because HE was going to need a bra before her!"
He has gained some weight in the last 6 months, but COME ON BM! You said that to your son???!!!
He said he started crying and BM said, "oh stop being a PUS!"
I said, "Did BM really say that?" And the two girls responded, "Yeah we heard her, we were IN THE car"
My boyfriend started to tell his boy some snappy comeback and I spoke up saying, "Just because other people say mean things does not mean we have to say mean things back to them."
Then my boyfriend started explaining KARMA "What goes around comes around"
I WISH KARMA WOULD BITE HER IN THE BUTT!
This makes me so sad - you do
This makes me so sad - you do not talk to your kids that way.
I wish I had advice but I really hope that the boy knows that what BM did was wrong and that some people gain it is apart of life, but that doesn't mean y'all can't eat healthier or go to the park more if it bothers him (not sure of you lifestyle so not criticizing)....and that none of the kids think it is okay to talk that way to each other or anyone for that matter just because BM is a rude ass.
I really hope karma bites her with a shark bite - how disgusting.
Poor kids- that is really
Poor kids- that is really disturbing. I hope they are getting counseling to help deal with her.
And I think their dad is right on.
It is genetic,... there ARE
It is genetic,... there ARE going to be big kids, not fat just big... Their dad is 6'4" 250lbs solid muscle and country farm boy STRONG, his whole family is all BIG, again Big may be the wrong word, but they are not fat...
As an example: The 12 year old girl is as tall as me 5'8" and a C cup already and she just started 7th grade.
We do walk almost daily and all the kids play a sport. They are active kids...
But still,... this kind of comment coming from someone close to them and their Mom who is supposed to be on her kid's side being the one encouraging this attacking, negative behavior is just mind numbing,...
The oldest girl is in therapy (only seen someone a few times, but it will be more frequent) Ijust said to my boyfriend, their dad, that maybe the boy is old enough now to start going too and would benefit from it too...
Like I said I was not in
Like I said I was not in anyway trying to be insulting as I don't know y'alls lifestyle or the build of the kids.
I would def recommend more therapy for the girl and as the other kids get old enough getting them into it as well because this is just wrong and sad on so many different levels.