Hi, I came across this site and am sometimes in need of a place to vent. My situation is unique. I am SM to two children. SD7 is the product of a long term relationship DBF had with college sweetheart. Their relationship fell apart when SD was 4. SS1 is to some chick he was banging, got drunk and thought that he put a rubber on and hence, SS1.

What makes our situation very unique is while they were friends with benefits, he and I met through a a mutual acquaintance and he basically stalked me until I gave him a date. We were friends for awhile. He had told her that he didn't want to have sex with her anymore and she told him she was pregnant about three weeks after we met. He didn't believe her because she is a LIAR, which will be covered in other blogs! Well, needless to say, it was true and I gave him a chance to prove that he could be what he promised. And I'm not sorry I gave him a chance. He's not the issue. IT'S ALL HER!

Nutty McDougal is a bitter white trash, no job having, horrible woman. She's psycho to the point that I have feared for my own safety. She's never forgave DBF or I, saying that I stole her happy family, though he told her that he NEVER wanted to be with her and that she was just a nut bucket (crude, I know!). I don't understand when a man admits that he just used you for sex how you can still want to call him and conversate. It's beyond me, but it lets me know how low her self-esteem really is.

SS1 suffers greatly because he has no relationship with his father because Nutty McDougal holds him hostage and blames me for it. Totally narcissistic and cannot take responsibility for anything she does.

Just recently, she gave birth to her second child and she sent DBF texts at 2:30 in the morning, a picture and another text saying "Look at the newest member of the DBF's last name family. Just kidding...lol" I was livid and he told her that she was out of line. We have filed papers for custody based on her lies, especially about medical stuff. She claims he's sick all the time, at the doctor for this and that. Her latest effort was to send a text saying that the dentist wanted to break his jaw to fix an overbite. ON A 1 YEAR OLD?! I quickly called my dentist and he confirmed for me what I thought. He's too young and they only do that when you have all your PERMANENT teeth. Crazy ass bitch!!!! I can't stand her! This is all of the time. It causes stress in our household to think SS1 is sick and not being taken care of.

I hope that I can vent here and feel better because DBF and I just can't do it anymore!